“You are all worthy. If you weren’t, you wouldn’t exist. Because creation does not make mistakes…And if you deserve to exist, you deserve to be who you are as fully as you possibly can.” Bashar
Dear Ones,
we’ve all been conditioned to control our lives. And although there is nothing wrong with holding and following the highest vision of your life, when you become too attached to the outcomes, life becomes an unnecessary struggle. Very few of us were brought up with a complete trust in life and in knowing that anything we need always flows to us and that we can live effortlessly and in harmony with this natural stream of goodness.
There are so many often unspoken messages about the necessity of struggle and hard work which is often rewarded and encouraged in children and for many then becomes a lifelong habit. Connected to this is – often unconscious – belief in one’s unworthiness and subsequent belief that you have to “work hard” in life to prove yourself first and only then you are in position to receive rewards, whatever they might be. And as what we believe to be true always manifests, the life experience perpetuates this belief further.
The way out of this vicious circle is to know yourself. As when you realise that you are Source in the body, an eternal infinite being having temporarily a human experience, many old beliefs become automatically nonsensical. And you start realising your immense unconditional value, the immense value of you being in this time and space.
No external manifestations – whether it’s your work, your relationships, your appearance, your possessions, your experiences can ever describe you nor show your true intrinsic value to others. Yes, they are reflections of your most dominant thoughts, feelings and beliefs and can therefore help you to see how YOU value yourself. In that sense they can be a great feedback for you and show you where you are still holding onto some old outdated beliefs of your unworthiness. And in my coaching work I often notice this as one of the most common reasons why the highest vision is not being fully manifested yet. That on some level – often buried in the subconscious mind – is the belief: I don’t deserve it. I am not worthy.
But this couldn’t be further from the truth. As you are magnificent no matter what’s manifesting in your life right now. You are a miracle! Just your body itself is a miracle. And that’s just the tip of an iceberg of who you are. And although your true value can’t be ever described nor can it be fully comprehended by the human mind, it’s good to ground yourself in the deep knowing that you are simply irreplaceable. That you belong. That you play a very unique role in this game of life and no one else can play that role but you.
So just pause now, dearest One. Take a deep breath and release any beliefs in your unworthiness. Embrace your self-worth completely. Treasure yourself. Cherish yourself. Just as you are right now. Allow yourself to live at peace with yourself, accepting fully all the happiness and joy that is rightfully yours. As happiness and joy is who you already are at your very core…
I look forward to meditating with you.
Lots of love,
Jana x x